You don't sound like a noob...ok you do, but that's because you just joined! Umm, I'm not entirely sure, but scroll down to the very bottom of any page. There should be some links that say "Contact Us-The Cave of Dragonflies-Archive-ASB Control Panel-Top" Of course, ASB control panel wont be there, but something with ASB might be in its place.
I am not sure, so if that's not the case, then dont be mad at me, X|