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  1. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    well... I understand it as I suggest this article, I find it to be very helpful :B
  2. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    no offence dude but you kind of have a track record of saying incredibly offensive things which makes it look like (to me) that you don't know what you're talking about; like when you said that bisexuals only had sex with 'hot' people/pansexuals have sex with anybody or somesuch. since I...
  3. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    ... is that not a binary? o.o how can you say that I like two genders when it's a spectrum and not imply that gender is also a binary?
  4. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    Bisexual is a convenient term for saying that you could be potentially attracted to cisgendered males and females, just as pansexual is a convenient term for saying you could be potentially attracted to someone of any gender. But bisexual does imply a gender binary - hence the 'bi'. it...
  5. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    so yeah this is pretty much how I feel! the word 'bisexual' does suggest there is a gender binary even though there isn't one; but honestly what other words can I use to say 'I like men and ladies but notsomuch inbetween'?
  6. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    that would work unless everyone gets confused and thinks you're attracted to the Xenomorphs from Aliens.
  7. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    that's the word I was trying to remember. I'm so forgetful sometimes.
  8. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    er no I don't think being pansexual crosses species as well as gender; I think you're referring to bestiality. EDIT: okay to clarify- I'm bisexual - this means that I'm attracted to two genders (hence the bi in bisexual); it suggests a gender binary. I'm attracted to men and women only...
  9. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    I cannot understand asexuality/aromanticism (I know what it is, but I really... can't understand being that way). I've just realised how difficult it must be for you guys, with the media and everything. :c
  10. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    ugh please stop ruining threads you obviously have no freaking idea what you're talking about go away already this is about right. I'm bisexual, and I'm attracted to women and men - but generally not androgyny, third gender people, etc. the main difference is that bisexual by name suggests...
  11. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    well it's the whole 'third gender' or whatever thing. People who don't want to assert themselves as male or female (or both, or transgender, or... anything, really). 'Bisexual' as a term suggests a gender binary, and I guess Pansexual doesn't. I identify as bisexual because androgyny doesn't...
  12. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    Yes. 'Heterosexual' means you're attracted to the opposite sex.
  13. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    Keep in mind that we only have 84 votes, so it might not be as accurate as we think. I guess it's at least a good survery of the most active users though.
  14. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    If you feel repulsed by sex or sexual feelings then I guess that's asexuality; You can always be biromantic if you're attracted to both genders.
  15. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    ftr I never actually felt sexually attracted to anyone really until I fell in love with my now-boyfriend; it was only about a year after that where I really explored my sexuality and as of now I feel I'm bisexual, and it's the same for him.
  16. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    Well, there are plenty of people who identify themselves as female and male, neither, genderless and so on. I think the general difference is that bisexuality by name suggests that there are two genders (hence bi) as opposed to pansexual where it doesn't matter. For example, the reason why I...
  17. ultraviolet

    Sexuality

    So, how do you define yourself sexually? Just curious. :o @poll: I'm bisexual. Also, I've probably missed something, so feel free to mention it. Easy definitions can be found here.
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