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Sexuality
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OrangeAipom
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I too, but that doesn't mean I'm attracted to it.
Dinru
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...I never said there was anything wrong with it. I just don't quite understand why people can be so totally strictly gay/straight. I mean, feel free to only date boys (or girls, for those that like girls) if that's what floats your boat, I say. It's just my opinion. But people can do what and who they please.
Also, I don't really think sex isn't the thing that separates friendship from romance. It's infatuation. If a person can't make you feel *~Warm fuzzies in your own little world of happiness IIIIIiii~~~ ~* (don't even go there) on a regular basis, that's probably not romance. Not saying that's the only thing, or that that's love (that is very different from love) but. Yeah.
I hope I made sense.
Tailsy
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goldenquagsire
Rubber dinghy rapids, bro!
I'm just really confused.
Like, I'm certain that I'd date either gender, as long as they suited my tastes. I'm definitely 100% that I'd like to have sex with women. The only problem is, I'm not quite sure how sure I am of my sexual desire for men. I mean, it's still at least a good 40%, but still.
It's more like, certain stuff I'm not so keen on. Like anal. But that applies pretty equally to both sexes (I am horribly, horribly squicky about anal - goddamn that thing is so SMALL you shouldn't be sticking stuff up it). And there's other stuff I would actually kind of enjoy. Like oral. And frankly, I disagree that you can't have a meaningful romantic relationship with someone without sex. :/
So I dunno. Heterosexual biromantic heavily leaning towards bisexual?
Like, I'm certain that I'd date either gender, as long as they suited my tastes. I'm definitely 100% that I'd like to have sex with women. The only problem is, I'm not quite sure how sure I am of my sexual desire for men. I mean, it's still at least a good 40%, but still.
It's more like, certain stuff I'm not so keen on. Like anal. But that applies pretty equally to both sexes (I am horribly, horribly squicky about anal - goddamn that thing is so SMALL you shouldn't be sticking stuff up it). And there's other stuff I would actually kind of enjoy. Like oral. And frankly, I disagree that you can't have a meaningful romantic relationship with someone without sex. :/
So I dunno. Heterosexual biromantic heavily leaning towards bisexual?
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Well, there are plenty of people who identify themselves as female and male, neither, genderless and so on. I think the general difference is that bisexuality by name suggests that there are two genders (hence bi) as opposed to pansexual where it doesn't matter. For example, the reason why I identify as bisexual is because I find men attractive because they're male and women attractive because they're female. I've never found gender ambiguity to be particularly attractive and I haven't met anyone who identifies as anything other than male or female, so I don't really know if I would be attracted to them.
Go and wiki 'third gender' for more information. I thought it would be kind of wrong to leave pansexuality out of the poll, because it's definitely a valid option.
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Phyro Phantom
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Same here. At least we're winning on the poll. xD
Personally, I kinda find all of this other stuff kind of strange, though I do understand it in a strange way. o_O I like girls way too much to be anything other than heterosexual though. (Plus anything else is against my religion, soooo....)
goldenquagsire
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sweet christ's bollocks
how are you still able to sit down after that.
on a more serious note, isn't it supposed to hurt like hell, at least the first few times?
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Heterosexual. Oddly, I find women more aesthetically beautiful than men and penises are just plain ugly, but men are just so hot and adorable and have sexy beards and smell nice and I want to touch them.
Used to identify as heteroromantic asexual, but the sexual part has been getting more prominent recently, so eh, it's probably no longer appropriate.
Used to identify as heteroromantic asexual, but the sexual part has been getting more prominent recently, so eh, it's probably no longer appropriate.
Vladimir Putin's LJ
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Funfax: homosexual feelings are not prohibited by any religion! Homosexual sex is, but even that is arguable!
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hopeandjoy
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goldenquagsire
Rubber dinghy rapids, bro!
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Dewgong
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huh?
...why and what's 'other stuff'?
just you know. wondering.
Phyro Phantom
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Unchaste thoughts are not encouraged by my religion, and homosexual sex is most certainly banned. So, um, no.
Who told you that? Gay people can get married in certain states in the US, actually, (though obviously not in the Church) though we still don't believe in that way of life. As Catholics, we believe that the purpose of marriage is to bring new life into the world. Since homosexual sex doesn't do this, we obviously don't view it as a "proper" marriage, if you could even call it a marriage. If it's gay, it's more like "agreeing to have intercourse" than "agreeing to raise children." There's quite the difference.
What we mean when we say that being gay is "okay" doesn't mean that we view it as morally correct, but rather that we try to be tolerant to people that think otherwise, and we need to remember that God is always willing to forgive everyone - even if they're not Catholic / Christian.
EDIT: To Dewgong: Currently, heterosexual has the highest votes in the poll. I was simply referencing that. As for what I meant by "other stuff", I meant non-heterosexual opinions, which I suppose was a rather hypocritical way of stating it. For that, I apologize.