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Recent content by octobr

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    Pets!

    terrier people UNITE we thrive on mischief and dogs getting into things they shouldn't mine are basically the worst, so of course i love them. maxy and violet ... they're already 9 and 13 respectively. my little old babies
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    Ableist language

    I don't really get why accommodating for people who ask you not to use certain words is such a Bad Thing there's like. more than a million words in the english language. finding an alternative is kind of easy. there are already lists for your convenience
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    Ableist language

    first off why haven't we addressed this because yo. yo??? YO excuse me did you really just say that people with mental illness are less intelligent than you. i am straight up pissed off and I want an apology stat because you have just insinuated that because me and a lot of my friends are not...
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    Ableist language

    i think it's pretty logical that you're not going to be like reported and banned the first time you use a word someone finds upsetting. they're going to ask you not to use it and after that it's up to you not to be rude unless it's something obviously assholish in which case, well
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    Ableist language

    if someone asks you not to use a word because it upsets them then don't use the word how is this difficult i don't understand i really really don't why do we have to argue about what the word ~*ACTUALLY*~ means and whether its impact is really important and if it'll lead to this that or...
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    Ableist language

    tbh i'd love if we stopped using 'crazy' and 'insane' because every time i see those words used in pretty much any context i remember suddenly that people like me and many of my friends are treated as inferior because of issues entirely out of our control : ) and by 'treated as inferior' i mean...
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    The "Fwee" Thread

    clover is in my house right now ouo
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    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    aha, apologies, biology sensei~ this is why we have you around, right? right...??
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    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    i also want to remind -- i just grabbed chalumeau's post here cause it was convenient -- i also want to remind you all that physical sex isn't a binary either intersex people exist in tons of different ways and a lot of people who don't even realize it may exhibit signs of being intersex...
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    New Phoenix Wright game.

    it's payne's brother actually and i would imagine she does, indeed, replace maya. at least for a while? see i'm more concerned about *where the hell is phoenix's daughter*
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    New Phoenix Wright game.

    Starring. The man himself. Yeah. Court-records.net is busy rollin in a puddle of its own pee due to server load but here's the gist of it: You want some pics? No prob. Check out here and pls dont' follow me jfc I'm assumin this is legit? We have info and pics from multiple sources...
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    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    we shouldn't have to be nice to get allies is the thing if you're only gonna be an 'ally' if we're super sweet to you then there's a problem. we are human beings who deserve the same rights as cis people. we shouldn't have to earn our allies; they should be a goddamn given. eta: on the 'stop...
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    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    well i mean yeah. but. largely we're looking at cispeople for the hate here there is gonna be hate within the community and that's frickin terrible and i'm mad about it but :?
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    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    well i mean. generally the trans* population doesn't do a lot of ignoring and hating towards the trans* community so yeah. as a general rule, all of the hate and oppressing comes from the cis community. no, they're not all ~evil masterminds~ or whatever. but how can we be expected to...
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    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    i am gonna just c/p the short convo i just had with meursault regarding this cause he said the same thing (7:02:23 PM) Verne: that's not the point here (7:03:15 PM) Verne: the point is, occasionally, i get sick and tired of dealing with cis people's bullshit. i have no way of being able to tell...
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