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  1. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Congratulations, Byrus, that's great news! Who did you do it with? I'll probably be getting mine done in Gent with Monstrey's team, they have really top results and I'm pretty surprised they're so unknown tbh. Just mentioning it for guys who might be looking into top surgery in Europe, I was...
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    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Hey guys just popping in to remind trans people that starting to see a therapist as early as you can is a great idea. Complaint post becase I try to be stealth online as much as possible but I'm out here so why not. Swearing and self-loathing derived from transsexualism. I've been seeing my guy...
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    Started my Transition, I Guess

    I don't post much anymore but I'm not out as trans on most places I frequent, so I'll just post a quick thing because I've found a great therapist here in Brussels who works with a whole team of people and will be working with me to get me on T soon (he mentioned 'skipping steps' since I suppose...
  4. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    Gender

    That's the impression I often hear, but here's where I guess my understanding diverges: what's wrong with gendering it, exactly? The only thing I can imagine is that you wouldn't want the baggage associated with a particular pronoun, but why should that matter? Well, yeah, I know that, by...
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    Gender

    Well, first off, unless you're explicitly discussing trans* issues, I don't think saying 'I met this guy today HE'S TRANS' is relevant, because the majority of binary trans people just want to be seen as their correct gender (for instance, I kick myself every day for not being stronger to my mum...
  6. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    Favorite "Villain Songs"?

    Dentist from Little Shop of Horrors.
  7. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    Meaning behind your Username and/or Usertitle

    I am Vladimir Putin.
  8. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    How many words do you know?

    iirc i got 29,200 because i'm a dumb english is my 4th language but i've been speaking it pretty much exclusively ever since i started uni so it's a pretty mediocre score
  9. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Yeah, I'm pretty excited about it! I'm doing my transition in Belgium, and the requirement in Belgium is that you have to have been feeling trans for at least two years. I've been consciously aware for much longer than that but obviously I can't prove it, but: - I came out to my mother a little...
  10. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Re:pubic hair, I actually quite like pubic hair (and body hair in general) but if my boyfriend wanted to shave then I might whine but it's his body so I'd deal :v Also I guess for Day of Silence you're not meant to talk all day but honestly it's to prove a point to non-queer people so if you're...
  11. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    In which time period would you live in?

    reality aside i guess i would go against all my political inclinations and just choose 'plz reincarnate me as an upper-class twit in the Edwardian era' so i could be bertie irl
  12. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    I'm going to let you guys in on a secret: I've only watched the first two episodes of Sherlock and then I lost interest, but then I got a Tumblr and I watched every other episode in .gif form at least thrice over. My problem with Sherlock is Moffat, one of the creators, because he is a boring...
  13. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    House got bisexuals wrong, then they did the annoying gay-tease a lot of mainstream shows do (looking right at you, Sherlock) to appeal to minorities without making the show too gay, I don't expect them to get anything right. House M.d. is a great example of a show that should have quit while...
  14. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    Child Discipline

    What qualifies as something 'really terrible?'
  15. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    Kim Jong-il dies at 69

    well he promised to continue his dad's military and nuclear programs and he's racist and egoistical so tbh i'm not expecting much also he's already been called weak and he announced he'll be sharing power with some general so that's a thing that happened
  16. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    TMI Time: Virginity

    I... never said they're not allowed to feel differently? What? I'm sorry if anyone got offended (though I also don't get why anyone would be offended by that post) but I literally do not understand forcing other people to wait for sex just because you set an arbitrary date. Of course, no one...
  17. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    TMI Time: Virginity

    I'm honestly curious about this: why do people want to wait until marriage to have sex? That just seems like such an arbitrary thing to me. It's not like sex is some sort of prize you should dangle over your partner's head, marriage is much more serious than sex, since it involves a ton of cash...
  18. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Thanks for the comments, everyone. I honestly wouldn't mind what he thought as long as he did treat me as I wish to be treated, but he outright stated he refuses to use the correct pronouns and said: 'think of it this way, i will always call you (birthname)', which is... pretty terrible! And...
  19. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    I came out on Facebook since I want to start the whole 'getting hormones asap' thing into gear and I'm not sure what the procedure is in Belgium (and possibly the UK). I'd already come out to my closest friends and they were all great with it, and my mother knows and is incredibly supportive...
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    Religion and Lack of Religion

    I have a question related to the discussion at hand :o I agree that hating all members of a religion is silly, but what about disliking the institution itself? For instance, I have plenty of Catholic family members and friends and I obviously like them, but I really have an aversion to the...
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