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  1. Jolty

    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    yes there is. it happens more often than you'd think. be on tumblr for 5 minutes, you will see this does happen. of course parents and actual adults don't think like this but so many people do and it's awful to see. one kid said they got "pressured by youtube" into taking t and they stopped and...
  2. Jolty

    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    ok i will /try/ to understand some of this. because like byrus said, pretty rambly and whatnot. do you know how common it is for women to feel like shit just for being women does that make all women who feel like that, trans? when i stop hearing about stupid little shits that go on T for...
  3. Jolty

    You know you've been at TCoD too long when

    if you weren't here on at least invisionfree ur not old
  4. Jolty

    You know you've been at TCoD too long when

    i am here because i am a masochistic piece of shit
  5. Jolty

    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    transgender and transsexual are the same thing. you can't change your gender since it's in your head, but you can change your body. i don't entirely know why transgender is used more often now. and i think the asterisk is meant to include non binaries and stuff as well but if it really does...
  6. Jolty

    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    why do social justice kids use y'all all the time it really bugs me especially because usually they're not from a place that uses it and the word folk oh god when brits use it it's just embarrassing also i never said people are being bullied for being cis or they hate all cis people. maybe you...
  7. Jolty

    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    ok you /cannot/ generalise all cis people and say something like you are allowed to be angry at them all because cis people are 99%+ of the entire population and many trans people look cis too because all they want to do is just blend in. so a lot of the time you can't even friggin tell if...
  8. Jolty

    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    holy fricking christ suddenly 473857485 posts will reply to several later
  9. Jolty

    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    hysterectomies aren't a trans thing though, women get them all the time. feminine men are still men. it's not nothing to do with how you act or dress or whatever it's with how you feel about your body. ok maybe i can understand not wanting some of the things you'd get from transitioning but...
  10. Jolty

    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    because it is that is the only symptom of it. that's called being cis. yes there are cis people who wish they had the other set of bits, but their lives aren't crippled by not having it. they're fine with the ones they have. trans people may be able to learn to cope with the bits they were...
  11. Jolty

    Is it necessary for a trans* person to transition?

    You can't be transgender/transsexual and love the body you were born into, that's a complete oxymoron. The entire point of being trans is dysphoria, so choosing not to transition because you're fine with your body makes no sense at all. That's called being cis. As for physical vs social...
  12. Jolty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    "i'm male but i'm totes ok with having boobs and a vagina and i won't change any of it" makes all the sense. i don't want to clog this thread is there somewhere else we can move this to
  13. Jolty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    if you don't want to transition and are totally fine with your birth sex, what exactly makes one trans? please tell me
  14. Jolty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    if you have no desire to transition (note: different from not being able to), you're not trans. if you are fine with seeing yourself as your birth sex, you are not trans.
  15. Jolty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    aromantic I guess and yes, cis
  16. Jolty

    Do you own any Pokemon Merchandise?

    oh yes. I have sooooo many plushes from when I was younger but most are packed away somewhere now so the ones I keep out are: Teddiursa, Gligar, Spheal, Cubchoo, Palpitoad, Excadrill, Shieldon, both Shelloses, Dwebble, Mewtwo, Koffing and a tiny Raichu and Pikachu. Have a bunch of figures...
  17. Jolty

    what languages do you speak?

    english and a liiiiittle bit of swedish. i'll be learning it properly in october i'd be fluent if my mum spoke only swedish to me when i was little :( which was the plan but she ended up not doing it so i'd concentrate on english because we start school at 4 here
  18. Jolty

    happy birthday!!!

    happy birthday!!!
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  19. Jolty

    The "Fwee" Thread

    today i have been on tcodf for nine years exactly i don't even know if this belongs in this thread but ok
  20. Jolty

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    congrats!!! how long are you needing to rest for? and are you able to do things by yourself or do you have to be helped? if you don't mind me asking anyway, i'm just curious about the recovery process and stuff :B as for lorem's questions i just hear that "a lot" of people /don't/ have lower...
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