- Pronoun
- she/her
We'd been trying for a while, but my monster hymen kept getting in the way. That was just the first time he got anywhere.Jolty said:was your first time planned or did it just kind of happen?
Well, if they're a dedicated couple, they're generally involved in some sexual activities, and talk about it, before they get to the part that needs a condom - plenty of time to obtain some. One-night stands, people tend to be a) drunk and thus don't care, b) at a place with condom vending machines or even free condoms, or c) the person they do it with is experienced and has condoms (and yes, girls sometimes carry condoms around too).Zeta Reticuli said:How one loses their virginity seems like a paradox to me. Unless you're stupid, you're not going to have sex without a condom, right? However, you're not going to be carrying around condoms with you unless you suspect that you could lose your virginity in the near future, and considering how most people say that it just kind of happens when you lose your virginity (i.e. neither party expects to have sex that night), you won't be suspecting that. So, you're not going to carry around condoms unless you have sex, but you're not going to have sex unless you own condoms...
How does that work out? Forgive me if I'm being incredibly stupid, but this is a legitimate question.
Shadey always carried condoms around in his bag, "just in case" (and had a bunch of them hidden in a drawer in his room, for that matter), but then again he's silly. And of course, he had had sex before.