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Of course I'm not forcing you to do anything if you don't want to, but seriously, what have you got to lose? Five seconds of your life?
I love how you guys just act like it's so terrible. It's not. Are you going to be permenantly scarred by what happened? If the answer is yes, then it wasn't child discipline, it was child abuse, nuff said.
I love how you guys just act like it's so terrible. It's not. Are you going to be permenantly scarred by what happened? If the answer is yes, then it wasn't child discipline, it was child abuse, nuff said.
Child abuse is just pure spite, and I have no tolerance for it.
That's why my mom who spanked me and I am scared of when angry admits that sometimes she's a little too harsh and not very physical unlike me, often has good advice, cares about me, makes sure I'm happy and healthy, never says anything emotionally devastating to me on purpose, and hasn't put a hand on me since I was little.I love how you guys just act like it's so terrible. It's not. Are you going to be permenantly scarred by what happened? If the answer is yes, then it wasn't child discipline, it was child abuse, nuff said.
So then why in the world are you permanently scarred if she hasn't even touched you since you were little?
It doesn't matter, she said her mom is really nice and always has good advice.
There is a very "clear-cut line," between child discipline and child abuse. Discipline is done knowing that you're only doing it to make your child a better person for it. Child abuse is just pure spite, and I have no tolerance for it.
So then why in the world are you permanently scarred if she hasn't even touched you since you were little?
It doesn't matter, she said her mom is really nice and always has good advice.
I didn't mean I should have been punished for that; I meant I was extremely rule-abiding and had very strong ideas about right and wrong as a kid (even earthworms have a right to life!), contrary to your assertion that punishment is the only way to instill these things into a kid.But the way I see it, not all kids are as good to their parents as you were; while, obviously, you were far from perfect, you were closer than most, based on the fact that you thought you needed punishment for petitioning worms. o_O
I would never spank my children, but only because I don't have the guts to do so. But if you were only spanked a couple of times in your childhood, it would make perfect sense to be terrified of your parents afterwards. If you were spanked a lot as a child, you probably wouldn't be so scarred by it because you have had "experience". It's like when you ride a roller coaster for the first time, and you're terrified. But after you have ridden roller coasters multiple times, it's not a big deal.