Mirry
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I have been reading some rather interesting discussions on this topic lately, and was wondering what your opinion was on the matter. If a child is convinced that he/she is of the opposite gender, how should a parent handle this situation? Should the parent try to have the child embrace his/her biological gender, or support the child completely in his/her endeavor to become the opposite sex?
I suppose integral to this situation is whether a child is capable of fully understanding and making a decision about his/her psychological gender. However, if the child waits until adulthood to begin his/her transformation if he/she finds that he/she is indeed transgender, this could have damaging psychological effects not to mention that hormone treatments are significantly less effective than if they are begun in one's childhood. I think it is rather important that a person look like his/her corresponding gender in order to be fully accepted in society.
There have been many documented cases of parents who try to force gender roles on their transgender children, with depression and suicide being the results. But how does one make the distinction between whether a child is simply toying with the idea of being the opposite gender, or truly is the opposite gender, while avoiding harmful side-effects?
I suppose integral to this situation is whether a child is capable of fully understanding and making a decision about his/her psychological gender. However, if the child waits until adulthood to begin his/her transformation if he/she finds that he/she is indeed transgender, this could have damaging psychological effects not to mention that hormone treatments are significantly less effective than if they are begun in one's childhood. I think it is rather important that a person look like his/her corresponding gender in order to be fully accepted in society.
There have been many documented cases of parents who try to force gender roles on their transgender children, with depression and suicide being the results. But how does one make the distinction between whether a child is simply toying with the idea of being the opposite gender, or truly is the opposite gender, while avoiding harmful side-effects?