Phantom
Uh, I didn't do it.
I know there is a thread already made for this, but it's been sent back a few pages so there we go.
This thread seemed to have the start of an interesting debate on the topic.
Here were some interesting points.
Personally I am very torn on the subject. I remember a couple years ago my mother told me she had had an abortion a year after I was born. I was shocked at first because my mother had always wanted a large family. I asked if there would have been something wrong with the pregnancy and she said no, it was just the wrong time to have a child with her life situation at the time. I respected her decision, but I couldn't help but be shocked. I mean, my mother must have been around twenty at the time so it wasn't exactly a teenage knock-up. But she was at the time divorcing my biological father and didn't want people to ask questions.
I lean towards both life and choice, and I can't really seem to find a median. I believe in adoption, I was adopted by my step father when I was eleven. I know that life in the system is bad, but at least it's a life. But then again am I saying that they should suck it up, no. But at the same time a child shouldn't have to pay with it's life because of a mother's mistake or "bad circumstances". I think that it deserves a chance at a good life. Though at the same time I think the mother has a choice, it's her life too, and I think she has a choice in it.
Then I think of pregnancies that come from acts of sexual violence and I am really torn. The child is a memory of that person, that child isn't it's parent. I can't help but keep going back to the question of, are children subject to the acts of the parent?
I really don't know.
This thread seemed to have the start of an interesting debate on the topic.
Here were some interesting points.
I don't promote abortion but I'm not going to murder you for having one - personally I think it's more of a case-by-case thing, but have one major point: if recent world leaders had been aborted, where would the world be today? You coulda just killed the future president. : P -
I don't think anyone promotes abortion. It's not like "the hip new thing". Pro-choice advocates usually see abortion as a last resort, and think that contraception and sex education are better alternatives, but also that at the end of the day it is the woman's right to decide what goes on inside her body.
Abortions are emotional difficult situations (hence why therapy is normally involved)
Personally I am very torn on the subject. I remember a couple years ago my mother told me she had had an abortion a year after I was born. I was shocked at first because my mother had always wanted a large family. I asked if there would have been something wrong with the pregnancy and she said no, it was just the wrong time to have a child with her life situation at the time. I respected her decision, but I couldn't help but be shocked. I mean, my mother must have been around twenty at the time so it wasn't exactly a teenage knock-up. But she was at the time divorcing my biological father and didn't want people to ask questions.
I lean towards both life and choice, and I can't really seem to find a median. I believe in adoption, I was adopted by my step father when I was eleven. I know that life in the system is bad, but at least it's a life. But then again am I saying that they should suck it up, no. But at the same time a child shouldn't have to pay with it's life because of a mother's mistake or "bad circumstances". I think that it deserves a chance at a good life. Though at the same time I think the mother has a choice, it's her life too, and I think she has a choice in it.
Then I think of pregnancies that come from acts of sexual violence and I am really torn. The child is a memory of that person, that child isn't it's parent. I can't help but keep going back to the question of, are children subject to the acts of the parent?
I really don't know.