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Of course I'm not forcing you to do anything if you don't want to, but seriously, what have you got to lose? Five seconds of your life?
because sex makes you vulnerable and I don't want to be in the open and weak with someone I don't trust 100%
As long as it stay out of children's hands, I have no problem with it, considering I can't get any if I tried.
Maybe it makes you open and vulnerable.
Why is sex something special? It's an activity that you do with someone (or multiple people). There's no inherent specialness to it.
it's nice, and at least friendly, if not affectionate or quite loving (it varies depending on the people involved); it's just not magical or anything. Instances of sex are special; sex as a whole is not and I see no reason to save your first time or anything. Fetishizing the first time kind of dilutes the next bunch anyway. :V (I was going to say the rest but eventually it'd wear off and you'd probably realize "yeah, sex is still every bit as special; the first time being the first didn't really mean anything".)
Thing is, I can guarantee that you will remember that first time and that first person, probably for the rest of your life. You could have sex 50 times after that (with the same, or with different people) but you will always remember that first time above most others, and probably remember it a lot more vividly.sex as a whole is not and I see no reason to save your first time or anything.
Regardless, I think the emphasis put on women's virginity - particularly in regards to those god-awful chastity ceremonies and even traditional marriage, with the whole white-wearing thing, especially when it's related to her virginity somehow 'belonging' to someone else, like in the 'father giving away the bride' tradition - is both sick and creepy.
Don't feel sorry for them, it's what they choose to do. I mean, if I were broke and starving I still wouldn't do what they're doing. Would you? ,xPI just feel sorry for the people who feel they have to become prostitutes just to get a bit of extra money
Porn is just moving pixels or printed-on paper. Does anyone else actually find it kinda funny that people are turned on by such things? It makes me laugh.But yeah, if you're mature and whatever and know that porn isn't actually like real sex, then fine.
Don't feel sorry for them, it's what they choose to do. I mean, if I were broke and starving I still wouldn't do what they're doing. Would you? ,xP
Porn is just moving pixels or printed-on paper. Does anyone else actually find it kinda funny that people are turned on by such things? It makes me laugh.
Don't feel sorry for them, it's what they choose to do. I mean, if I were broke and starving I still wouldn't do what they're doing. Would you? ,xP
Porn is just moving pixels or printed-on paper. Does anyone else actually find it kinda funny that people are turned on by such things? It makes me laugh.
2. You aren't broke or starving. You are hardly qualified to evaluate what extremes you would go to if you were unless you've truly been in such a desperate situation.
You haven't been around the world. How do you know its circumference isn't ~40000 km?
Porn is just moving pixels or printed-on paper. Does anyone else actually find it kinda funny that people are turned on by such things? It makes me laugh.
Well it's not weak-willed if it's something they want or have no problem doing.. Like you said, everyone is different, how are you supposed to help someone if that's the way they are..Please keep two things in mind:
1. Your mindset is not the absolute that humanity has. People are different and are driven to different things by different means. Maybe you wouldn't but there are people who would and we should be trying to help them rather than saying how weak willed they are.
Uhh.. I think I know myself well enough to say what I would and would not do..2. You aren't broke or starving. You are hardly qualified to evaluate what extremes you would go to if you were unless you've truly been in such a desperate situation.
LOL, yeah I guess so.. sad thing is, I think there are some people like that as well. ,xD
Uhh.. I think I know myself well enough to say what I would and would not do...