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Karousever

formerly known as Jaketiger1116
Ok, I'm too excited to wait till tonight when I've gotten the answer, so I'm making a post now. I've had a girlfriend before, but she was long distance. I asked her out over the phone. But she was it. This is the first time I'm going to be asking out a girl that actually goes to my school, lives in the same town, all that jazz. Which is completely new to me, and I'm ridiculously scared and excited at the same time.

I'm going to go through classes all day, blah boring blah, and then I'll stay afterschool like I do every Tuesday for Nerd Society. She also stays after for Nerd Society, of course. And when Nerd Society is over, I walk off the grounds of the High School, across the soccer field, over to the Primary School, and I ride with me little brother home on his bus. But often this girl walks across the soccer field with me, and while I go to the buses she goes her own way (walking home). And I figured on the soccer field is the perfect place to ask her, because we'll be alone.

I know not to get my hopes too high, because she could decline. And that's alright, I'm just really hopeful :P I have low self-esteem, so one part of me is saying she'll for sure say no, but it can't hurt to ask, and the other part of me says that based on how she acts, she probably does like me.

Now, it's weird, because she knows I like her, and we even sort of talked about it once, but she never said she didn't like me. And at the time she had a boyfriend, so...yeah. But the way she acts with me, sometimes I think it's definitely possible. And I make her so darn happy, I type her out these really long messages every once in a while telling her how amazing and beautiful she is, and it always makes her feel better about herself and makes her happy (which makes me happy), and I've done it for so long. I remember back when she still had a boyfriend, she even said she wishes her boyfriend had done that, etc.

Also the last school dance we had, I wasn't able to go to, but she thought I was, and apparently she dressed in some beautiful dress in my favorite color (green if you're curious), and someone said when they told her I wasn't coming, she sat down and cried (I felt so terrible, you can imagine). And she herself told me that she wouldn't have worn that dress if she "had known there was no one there to impress". So I'm just trying to say, I feel as if it's definitely possible she may like me.

Though of course I could be friendzoned :/ That's happened to me with pretty much...every girl, ever. We'll see. Anyway, I'll try to keep my head up if she rejects me :P I'll assume the worst, and if she says yes, it'll be just that much better.

Well I hope all of you have a great day, wish me luck!
 
Alright, and her answer was, drumroll please...

I don't know :D
So yeah, I didn't get to ask. We were walking toward the front door, as usual, and then right as the door opened she turned around and went back inside, like she forgot something. I tried waiting around for a few minutes, and walked real slow, but she didn't come back out. So I walked across the soccer field alone on this Tuesday. So I'm thinking of trying to find another window of opportunity sooner, rather than next Tuesday. Tomorrow is block scheduling, so maybe not then, but Thursday is a normal day. And about 75% of the time, on a normal day, after 1st hour I take my stuff to my locker, and she sneaks up behind me, and right as I get it open she slams it closed and giggles her little butt off. She's so adorable ^_^ Anyway, so I figure if I wait till then, THAT might be a good time. But gosh, I get nervous just thinking about it. I'm one of those guys that's really sweet and nice, but the downside is that I'm really shy and insecure, so...heh, yeah :P But we'll see, I promise I'll let you guys know as soon as I ask.

Thanks to all of you who wished me luck, I shall assume it applies all the way until after I've asked her out, rather than just for today XD
 
She likes me, but she refuses to date anyone. Apparently a broken heart that still hasn't healed.
 
Yeah, I know, it's a positive. And I'm willing to wait for her, it's just sort of a bummer that she's talking years, not months.
 
Oh she's want's to wait years? That sucks. It is sweet that you're willing to wait for her though. Most guys won't do that.
 
Oh she's want's to wait years? That sucks. It is sweet that you're willing to wait for her though. Most guys won't do that.

so very true. I am by no means an expert on this type of thing, as i never had a boyfirend in my entire 13 years of life, but it happens so much atmy school that i know that not many guys wait at all. If our're willing to wait that long than you must be a good person and you two would be wonderful together. patiance is key. :)
 
I thank both of you very much for your compliments, I do my best to be the best guy that I can. And not to mention I just really like this one, she's certainly very special to me. Oh gosh could I talk about her. She's so kind, fun-loving, and spontaneous. And not to mention she's absolutely beautiful. I didn't even know a girl like her existed, until I got to know her. She's worth the wait, easy.
 
She seems very nice and pretty. She seems like she is worth every minute of the wait. I just hope she knows how lucky she is to have a guy wait on her.
 
Just adding, right after relationships end, some people are distraught. So right now she may feel that she won't be able to date for years, but that could quite possibly shorten. Even if it doesn't; good for you being willing to wait!
 
Thank you, Spoon, and yes I know, but I think she's serious. She's got a little bit more holding her back, but the rest isn't really my information to share, so...yeah.
 
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