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Are you a virgin?

Are you a virgin?

  • Yes

    Votes: 228 87.7%

  • No

    Votes: 32 12.3%
  • Total voters
    260
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Right. So, purely because he is male, you assume he would enjoy being (possibly) kidnapped, dragged away somewhere and forced into having intercourse?

Philly, my respect for you has just gone down quite a bit.
 
Philly said:
I wouldn't doubt that he enjoyed it! It seems typical of a guy to enjoy something like that, unless of course he was gay, in which case probably not.
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what the fuck

would you like being raped? if you say yes, you're even more of a douchebag that I already thought you were
 
Philly said:
He's also a dude. I don't know about you, but I have never heard of a girl/gay rapist.
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Yes, there are girl rapists. It sucks for the guys involved.
And men do get raped by men. Rapists aren't necessarily gay, though.
ALSO WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?
 
Jolty said:
what the fuck

would you like being raped? if you say yes, you're even more of a douchebag that I already thought you were
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Speaking of which... I'm not sure what exactly the definition of "rape" is, but don't you kind of have to *not want it* for it to be rape?
 
Philly said:
I wouldn't doubt that he enjoyed it! It seems typical of a guy to enjoy something like that, unless of course he was gay, in which case probably not.
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get out

Go see what its like to get raped, then rewrite this post.
 
Philly said:
Because you know
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Why should he have to know? Regardless, it's someone being violated and forced into something they DON'T want to do. Do you consider that to be a good thing just because of the stupid stereotype that guys ALWAYS want sex ALL THE TIME and that it can't possibly be painful, damaging, or humiliating to them?

Please, get a sense of when to just stop talking. There's a reason why people here don't like you.
 
Philly said:
Because you know
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First of all, you don't know if he's been raped or not. If he has been, I'm sure he would fine that very insulting. Even if he hasn't, that's just a really stupid thing to say.

Second, uh wtf. Why would you have to be raped to know that it's one of the worst things that can happen to someone? It's being violated in one of the worst ways possible, it's traumatizing, and it's painful. It doesn't make any difference whether you have a penis or not, you aren't going to want somebody doing that to you.

Think before you post or don't post at all.
 
Philly said:
I wouldn't doubt that he enjoyed it! It seems typical of a guy to enjoy something like that, unless of course he was gay, in which case probably not.
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In one sense you may be - partially - accurate: Since a female raping a male often involves making the guy orgasm (I read this somewhere, but I cannot recall my source), and inserting things into the anus is supposed to be plesurable, there will probably be pleasurable sensations (unless there are medical issues).

However this doesn't mean he enjoys the experience of being forced against his will to have sex in any way and it will be emotionally damaging (given their 'macho' image has just been destroyed, for a start).

Rape is, by the definition, unpleasant and upsetting to say the least, and no-one should know what it feels like (in a perfect world). It's sad they do, but it should never be taken light of.

*****

Anyway, since this is my first post in this thread, I believe I have some on-topic matters to discuss:

I was never a virgin as I am a guy.

OK using the modern gender-neutral definition I am, for the simple reason I don't care about sex. At all. It's unimportant to me and I don't see people in a sexual way unless I make a concious effort, which I cannot maintain for very long.

I don't know if I ever will have sex: I don't think I'd object (if in a relationship and such), but I don't think I'll get to that point anyway.
 
Time Psyduck said:
In one sense you may be - partially - accurate: Since a female raping a male often involves making the guy orgasm (I read this somewhere, but I cannot recall my source), and inserting things into the anus is supposed to be plesurable, there will probably be pleasurable sensations (unless there are medical issues).
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Erections are caused subconsciously, and putting things in the butt is (so I've read) initially VERY painful.

Sure, it could feel good, but wouldn't that just make things even more confusing and traumatizing by causing conflicted emotions? I read the rest of your post, and I'm not debating you, just making the point.
 
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