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Sexuality

Sexuality?

  • I am heterosexual.

    Votes: 99 44.8%

  • I am homosexual.

    Votes: 21 9.5%

  • I am bisexual.

    Votes: 42 19.0%

  • I am pansexual.

    Votes: 11 5.0%

  • I am asexual.

    Votes: 15 6.8%

  • I don't know.

    Votes: 33 14.9%
  • Total voters
    221
Watershed said:
i've heard it's much easier for gays to get together than for straight people even
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From experience (Experience!) I'd say that's true in a way, in that, you know, if you're both gay you're both aware of how... rare relationship opportunities come along relative to for straight people. So you're kind of magnetised I guess? But at the same time it's less likely you'll even find a gay person in the first place sooo that's both true and untrue (just to be confusing).
 
Zephyrous Castform said:
From experience (Experience!) I'd say that's true in a way, in that, you know, if you're both gay you're both aware of how... rare relationship opportunities come along relative to for straight people. So you're kind of magnetised I guess? But at the same time it's less likely you'll even find a gay person in the first place sooo that's both true and untrue (just to be confusing).
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that and most straight couples go through a lot of courtship. gays seem to just skip the step and get down to the sex a lot easier
 
Watershed said:
that and most straight couples go through a lot of courtship. gays seem to just skip the step and get down to the sex a lot easier
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Wellll that's not quite the angle I was going for in my explanation! Nor can I say I particularly agree with it, but, uh, I guess that's a point too.
 
If a transgender is attracted to the sex of the same gender they identify as, would that be homosexual or heterosexual?
 
Well there's no question it's homoGENDERal, were that a word, but is it homosexual?
 
Pwnemon said:
Well there's no question it's homoGENDERal, were that a word, but is it homosexual?
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homogenderal ain't even a word, son

I am a guy
I am sexually attracted to other guys
therefore, I have homosexual feelings for guys.

also,
if a trans man and a cis man had sex, it would still be homosexual
and penis-in-vagina is NOT the only way to have sex.
hell the trans man might even have a penis too
 
Yeah, I always thought that if a woman was born male and was attracted to males, she'd be straight and if she was born male and was attracted to females she'd be a lesbian.

Really, it's not that hard. A transgendered or intersexed person is the gender they identify as and thus both their pronouns and the term for their sexual orientation should be based around that.
 
Pwnemon said:
No crap. Why am I always talked down to as if I don't know that 2+2=4?
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I didn't see the "were that a word" part, my bad
and omg it's 5 JEEZ

and your post implied that transgendered person + cisgendered person of same gender = heterosexual
SO.
 
It was an honest question, not an implication. Your first post only addressed the gender part so I was trying to clarify.
 
I've been informed that gender is what sex a person identifies as, whereas sex is what their pants tell you.
 
No, what I said was someone's gender goes hand in hand with their sexuality. Gender and sex are two completely different things.
 
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