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The LGBT Club

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Ryubane said:
About all we've had join these past few weeks is a couple of bi males. We've had a couple of active bi or les girls but they've had membership for a while now. Now we have someone new, so hey. Party.
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*points to her gender* Gee, thanks :(

though in all honesty, my romantic troubles have less to do with liking someone than being kinda happy the person she likes liking her back while being kinda sad cause...well, I like her. Goddamn ambivalence.

See, that's the problem with crushing on your friends *sighs*
 
About all we've had join these past few weeks is a couple of bi males. We've had a couple of active bi or les girls but they've had membership for a while now. Now we have someone new, so hey. Party.
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Hi, I wanted to to get a party too, so I just impulsively decided to join. I guess I'm bisexual, tho' I think pansexual might be more accurate.
 
Flora said:
Flora would also like to figure out why the forum keeps eating the first post on a new page.
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I know! My CP said that you had new posts here all day and I'm all AUGHT WHY CAN'T I SEE IT BLADLJa;f

I learned a new term the other day, 'bigender,' and could totally see myself being that since I'm like two different people sometimes. Because my gaiety flops around like a light switch.
 
Diz said:
I learned a new term the other day, 'bigender,' and could totally see myself being that since I'm like two different people sometimes. Because my gaiety flops around like a light switch.
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I keep wondering if I'm bigender recently
but being female in "the real world" still makes me want to die so... I dunno maybe I'm getting having more than one gender confused with feeling feminine once in a while

I don't really want to be anything other than a guy though
...who apparently feels like a woman sometimes?
 
Flora said:
*points to her gender* Gee, thanks :(

though in all honesty, my romantic troubles have less to do with liking someone than being kinda happy the person she likes liking her back while being kinda sad cause...well, I like her. Goddamn ambivalence.

See, that's the problem with crushing on your friends *sighs*
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You joined over two weeks ago. The post is stale. :/
 
I'M ACTUALLY SAYING SOMETHING RELEVANT TO THE THREAD!!!!

So like you know that straight list dealio up there? Well today I was doing a cell biology test (it was wank) and the PhD student giving it to us was like, hot. It was annoying because it's like, if I were straight I could reasonably expect to have a chance at sex or a relationship or whatever with an attractive straight woman, but since I'm a man it's all like ":|"

BASICALLY I'm butt-hurt because I can't just assume all guys are into me. bawwww [is a serious problem. i vote that we all wear pink triangles]
 
Harlequin said:
I'M ACTUALLY SAYING SOMETHING RELEVANT TO THE THREAD!!!!

So like you know that straight list dealio up there? Well today I was doing a cell biology test (it was wank) and the PhD student giving it to us was like, hot. It was annoying because it's like, if I were straight I could reasonably expect to have a chance at sex or a relationship or whatever with an attractive straight woman, but since I'm a man it's all like ":|"

BASICALLY I'm butt-hurt because I can't just assume all guys are into me. bawwww [is a serious problem. i vote that we all wear pink triangles]
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I feel the same way, especially about those last two sentences. It may just be a self-esteem issue, but it's more or less the feeling that guys only want to hang out with me because of my bisexuality and that they're into me. So when they don't want to hang out...
 
I seem to attract fat gay guys that want me as a sexual trophy, not as a partner. Why is it that some gay guys want to pop my cherry before I'm ready?
 
Apparently some people at school knew that I said in my Facebook profile I was interested in guys for a while now. Today, one of my friends decided to tell me about it and (like everyone else) jumped to the conclusion that my brother hacked into my account and changed my sexuality for sh**s and giggles and/or to get revenge on me for something. So when I told them I really was gay, they... really didn't care. And I was afraid to tell them all these months because I thought they wouldn't want to be friends with me anymore!

Well, now all my friends know (which merits a smiley). :D
 
Ryubane said:
Since when did everyone decide to make my original statement of a shortage of lesbians a big deal?
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They're... not?

(You're just oppressed by the vagina.)

Relatedly, I'm bi-curious, but that doesn't especially count because expressing a desire to know what it's like having sex with a girl is apparently grounds to be called a ho. IDK.
 
Tailsy said:
They're... not?

(You're just oppressed by the vagina.)
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I must be. :/

EDIT cuz Tailsy snuck an edit in there as I was posting:
People say that about me all the time about expressing a male sexual interest. It's hardly different from a guy wanting to experiment with a girl the same way.
 
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TAILSY WELCOME TO THE BEST THREAD


somewhat relevant: I just assume nobody ever is into me because it's true!! I'm a ninja so nobody irl really knows me
Many girls on the tinternets have liked me though and I cannot even remember the last time a guy liked me. Guys NEVER like me :'(
 
Harlequin said:
I'M ACTUALLY SAYING SOMETHING RELEVANT TO THE THREAD!!!!

So like you know that straight list dealio up there? Well today I was doing a cell biology test (it was wank) and the PhD student giving it to us was like, hot. It was annoying because it's like, if I were straight I could reasonably expect to have a chance at sex or a relationship or whatever with an attractive straight woman, but since I'm a man it's all like ":|"

BASICALLY I'm butt-hurt because I can't just assume all guys are into me. bawwww [is a serious problem. i vote that we all wear pink triangles]
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Oh christ, I have the same thing. And it's not just with people I'm attracted to - every so often I'll be around someone (male or female) I am sure is gay and I'll feel like we have a ~special gay bond~ and then suddenly one day they mention their opposite-sex partner or whatever in passing and I feel utterly crushed and betrayed and they have absolutely no idea and I'm inwardly wailing "but how could you, random guy in my cultures of embodiment class? ;;"

But my inability to identify gay people coupled with the fact that basically nobody is gay (or if they are, they're men) really sucks. I am apparently the only lesbian in the uni's feminist society, which has like 30 women in. Whoever said that every stereotype is based in truth lied so hard.
 
Dannichu said:
Oh christ, I have the same thing. And it's not just with people I'm attracted to - every so often I'll be around someone (male or female) I am sure is gay and I'll feel like we have a ~special gay bond~ and then suddenly one day they mention their opposite-sex partner or whatever in passing and I feel utterly crushed and betrayed and they have absolutely no idea and I'm inwardly wailing "but how could you, random guy in my cultures of embodiment class? ;;"
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This is how I spent most of my summer.
 
Dannichu said:
Oh christ, I have the same thing. And it's not just with people I'm attracted to - every so often I'll be around someone (male or female) I am sure is gay and I'll feel like we have a ~special gay bond~ and then suddenly one day they mention their opposite-sex partner or whatever in passing and I feel utterly crushed and betrayed and they have absolutely no idea and I'm inwardly wailing "but how could you, random guy in my cultures of embodiment class? ;;"

But my inability to identify gay people coupled with the fact that basically nobody is gay (or if they are, they're men) really sucks. I am apparently the only lesbian in the uni's feminist society, which has like 30 women in. Whoever said that every stereotype is based in truth lied so hard.
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; ; omg yes I know exactly what you mean

(except it hurts more when you want to fuck his brains outestablish a meaningful long term emotional relationship)

Interestingly, the Harry Potter Society has a lot of lesbians (and bisexual girls).

OH speaking of societies I eventually joined the LGBT+ Association (yeah its name is kind of faggy but basically their website is all "um we have a + because we didn't want to exclude like, asexuals or non-gender-binary dudes or ~~whatever~~")!

... I've not gone to any meetings or whatever because um, yeah, but!
 
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