Dannichu
Tragically unbeyachted.
Apologies if this is a double-post, but my previous comment didn't seem to be showing up.
Also, ... postninja'd me, but her response pretty much highlights the offensiveness of your comment (offensiveness which I don't think you intended, but like so much else in this thread, it was offensive whether you intended it to be or not).
It's late and I have an early start, so I'm not going to reply to all your post (I'll try and do so tomorrow unless someone beats me to it), but I have to respond to this.
It's precisely because someone lives this kind of discrimination every day that they're the perfect person to say whether or not it's damaging and hurtful.
You're not Hispanic, and as such you have absolutely no idea what it's like to live as a Hispanic person in the US (nor can you ever), and you have no idea of what it's like to have to put up with all kinds of racism that go along with that, from blatant name-calling and discrimination, to people coming up to you while you're trying to do your shopping and asking you where things are because they assume you're an employee, to people thinking your name is "funny-sounding".
Who, if not the people who are going to be damaged by offensive statements, should be the ones to say how much damage was caused?
"All they can give you is personal opinion" - people's opinion is all that matters. Issues surrounding race, dis/ability, sex, gender and so on aren't quantative statistics that you can make graphs out of - they're important aspects of people's lives, and you can't reduce that down to "Use of the word "nigger" is 76% offensive." or "You're 58% politically incorrect if you talk to the person pushing the wheelchair and completely disregard the person sitting in it".
So, how about when someone does say "hey, this is kinda hurtful", you don't assume (from your position as someone who can have no idea what it's like to be a racial minority) that they're making stuff up to be offended about?
Moreover, what on earth gives you the right to decide what Hispanic people should and shouldn't get offended by?
I have a suggestion for you: Walk a mile in someone else's shoes. Or, put another way, shut up and listen to someone's life experiences that are a little different from yours and maybe you'll learn something.
Also, ... postninja'd me, but her response pretty much highlights the offensiveness of your comment (offensiveness which I don't think you intended, but like so much else in this thread, it was offensive whether you intended it to be or not).
Also, if you live this, isn't it possible that perhaps you might not have the best clarity on the issue? Someone caught in the eye of the storm can't really tell you how strong the storm was or how much damaged it caused. All they can give you is personal opinion.
It's late and I have an early start, so I'm not going to reply to all your post (I'll try and do so tomorrow unless someone beats me to it), but I have to respond to this.
It's precisely because someone lives this kind of discrimination every day that they're the perfect person to say whether or not it's damaging and hurtful.
You're not Hispanic, and as such you have absolutely no idea what it's like to live as a Hispanic person in the US (nor can you ever), and you have no idea of what it's like to have to put up with all kinds of racism that go along with that, from blatant name-calling and discrimination, to people coming up to you while you're trying to do your shopping and asking you where things are because they assume you're an employee, to people thinking your name is "funny-sounding".
Who, if not the people who are going to be damaged by offensive statements, should be the ones to say how much damage was caused?
"All they can give you is personal opinion" - people's opinion is all that matters. Issues surrounding race, dis/ability, sex, gender and so on aren't quantative statistics that you can make graphs out of - they're important aspects of people's lives, and you can't reduce that down to "Use of the word "nigger" is 76% offensive." or "You're 58% politically incorrect if you talk to the person pushing the wheelchair and completely disregard the person sitting in it".
So, how about when someone does say "hey, this is kinda hurtful", you don't assume (from your position as someone who can have no idea what it's like to be a racial minority) that they're making stuff up to be offended about?
Moreover, what on earth gives you the right to decide what Hispanic people should and shouldn't get offended by?
I have a suggestion for you: Walk a mile in someone else's shoes. Or, put another way, shut up and listen to someone's life experiences that are a little different from yours and maybe you'll learn something.