TMI Time: Virginity

[Harlequin]

I dont know, I would not feel comfortable engaging in such an intimate activity with someone I just met. Some people are cool doing that, and that is great for them! I honestly require some sort of emotional bond to even begin doing touchy-feely things.

That is fair! Sex with people you've only recently met isn't for everyone!

I'm pretty sure someone you just met who you are having sex with falls into the category of someone you like, otherwise you would probably go :/ and not have sex.

Well, I meant "like" in the sense that "I like your personality and whatnot, and we can probably be friends as well as sex-friends" rather than just "I met you in a club, you're hot, let's fuck". Both can be fun!

 

[Spoon]

Yep! I'm uninterested in dating, and would be hopelessly awkward if I wasn't, so I don't see this changing anytime soon.

 

[surskitty]

Well, I meant "like" in the sense that "I like your personality and whatnot, and we can probably be friends as well as sex-friends" rather than just "I met you in a club, you're hot, let's fuck". Both can be fun!

I know someone who met eir husband in a threesome! Eir friend was like I WANT TO HAVE A THREESOME WITH THIS ONE GUY; COME JOIN ME and then e and eir current husband were like I JUST MET YOU AND I LIKE YOU and they both ended up ignoring their mutual friend. And now they're married. So that's at least one meaningful friendship made from having sex with people you've just met.

 

[octobr]

Thus far I have had panic attacks whenever someone actually tries to ask me out. I think my answer is unlikely to change unless someone I trust propositions me for casual sex.

So hey

 

[Mr. Moon]

If I could "like" the above comment I would. Nice.

Uh, lost my virginity to...Well, she was my best friend at the time. xD
Couple years ago.

 

[Automata heart]

Never kissed anyone that I count. (a few gone to kiss people on the cheek and missed) and still a virgin. No plans to change that unitll I can support any offspring it lands me with.

 

[surskitty]

Never kissed anyone that I count. (a few gone to kiss people on the cheek and missed) and still a virgin. No plans to change that unitll I can support any offspring it lands me with.

Condoms exist, you know :Db As does having sex in ways that do not involve sticking a penis in a vagina.

 

[Ether's Bane]

No!...

...yes. :(

 

[Harlequin]

I know someone who met eir husband in a threesome! Eir friend was like I WANT TO HAVE A THREESOME WITH THIS ONE GUY; COME JOIN ME and then e and eir current husband were like I JUST MET YOU AND I LIKE YOU and they both ended up ignoring their mutual friend. And now they're married. So that's at least one meaningful friendship made from having sex with people you've just met.

Well that can happen too!

 

[goldenquagsire]

I've lost my 'mouth virginity' (never heard that one before, hm) and came damn close to losing my real virginity, but then the evening kind of went tits-up (and not in a good way, sadly)...

 

[Worst Username Ever]

I still am, yes. And a "lip virgin" too.

 

[Saith]

Some girl just lost hers
Awwwwww yeah B-)

 

[surskitty]

Where did you put it?

 

[Saith]

Well I keep 'em all in a box, don't I?
It's, like, mystical fuck voodoo.
The more I have sex, the better I become.
It's pretty fucking neato.

 

[goldenquagsire]

Well I keep 'em all in a box, don't I?

Why did this come to mind? :(

 

[Scohui]

Why did this come to mind? :(

Same here.

 

[Ivy Newton]

Lip-virgin... honestly never heard of that before. Does it count if it was during a game of truth-or-dare? Probably. So, not a lip-virgin. Which surprises me incredibly, since the closest I've gotten to dating anyone is about as far as the moon is from earth.

Virgin-virgin... yeah and probably not gonna change anytime soon. While I can see it being enjoyable, I'm too squeamish to get over the whole "naked bodies touching and exchanging bodily fluids" thing. Maybe if we fucked in the shower.
Also there's the whole problem of complete and utter inability to work up the courage to do anything romantic. The closest I've gotten is "accidentally" falling asleep on my classmate's shoulder during a long plane flight. Hehe.

 

[spaekle]

Why did this come to mind? :(

Well, that's not too bad, I thought of how they found a shoebox full of labias in Ed Gein's house. :I

 

[Saith]

Oh god guys, stop. >:I

 

[Autumn]

While I can see it being enjoyable, I'm too squeamish to get over the whole "naked bodies touching and exchanging bodily fluids" thing.

That's what I used to think for pretty much my entire life up until I started dating my boyfriend, and even for a significant period of time after that. I used to think I was biromantic homosexual because I found girls more attractive than guys and penises really grossed me out. Then my boyfriend came along and, well, I mean. Sex makes sense and you stop being squeamish about it if it's with someone you truly love.