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TMI Time: Virginity
- Thread starter Tailsy
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Aisling
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[/threedayslate] I just love this gif
so we both hit third base for the first time yesterday and holy shit. Solo just isn't fun anymore. But at the same time we're far from being in the clear for home run. That's a little frustrating. :I but I've heard mutual masturbation is sometimes considered sex so I dunno? derp
voltianqueen
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Mr. Moon
You can't eat me! I'm Herbert Moooooon!
You sound fun.
Unless someone's found it, I still can't find my virginity..."Baby come ba-*shot*"
Karkat Vantas
Virile God-Snake Tower of Masculinity
Blastoise Fortooate
Geographical!
you act like this is not the normal response
somehow i didn't expect it to hurt
octobr
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THIS THREAD IS SO DANG FUNNY NOW
having now had a sort of experience with sexytime things (uh, like, what the heck even is virginity - my jellysquishes and I all have vaginas and stuff, so it's not like there's a magical penetration virginity button we can hit, haha. i guess one would still consider me a virgin because i refuse to allow skin-to-skin contact down there without proper protective measures.) let me tell you
not such a big deal (i am sure someone would look down on us cause we've been ~OFFICIALLY DATING~ for just a week, but fuck off, cause we do what we want and now I put on sunglasses YEAH)
it's all kind of really silly actually and I keep making stupid comments partway through and laughing and generally I'm turning into tailsy, oh god. though this may have to do with my growing suspicion that my sex drive has been damaged by my recent change in my dosage of antidepressants! also my rediscovery of dysphoria as brought about by physical contact.
but like there is nothing life-shattering about sexy things i don't think haha
like i was like 'what if this changes things' nope now we just get to make more jokes at each others' expense
maybe this would be different if texas was right next to pennsylvania, wiggles eyebrows
laughs a lot cause it's true, it's true
as closure to this post, kids, never do anything you feel pressured into, always make your comfort zones and boundaries clear, and stay safe and use protection. if it's wet and not yours don't touch it unless you're fluid bonded! (◡‿◡✿)
having now had a sort of experience with sexytime things (uh, like, what the heck even is virginity - my jellysquishes and I all have vaginas and stuff, so it's not like there's a magical penetration virginity button we can hit, haha. i guess one would still consider me a virgin because i refuse to allow skin-to-skin contact down there without proper protective measures.) let me tell you
not such a big deal (i am sure someone would look down on us cause we've been ~OFFICIALLY DATING~ for just a week, but fuck off, cause we do what we want and now I put on sunglasses YEAH)
it's all kind of really silly actually and I keep making stupid comments partway through and laughing and generally I'm turning into tailsy, oh god. though this may have to do with my growing suspicion that my sex drive has been damaged by my recent change in my dosage of antidepressants! also my rediscovery of dysphoria as brought about by physical contact.
but like there is nothing life-shattering about sexy things i don't think haha
like i was like 'what if this changes things' nope now we just get to make more jokes at each others' expense
maybe this would be different if texas was right next to pennsylvania, wiggles eyebrows
laughs a lot cause it's true, it's true
as closure to this post, kids, never do anything you feel pressured into, always make your comfort zones and boundaries clear, and stay safe and use protection. if it's wet and not yours don't touch it unless you're fluid bonded! (◡‿◡✿)
ArtemisX
Pokemon Noob
So I shouldn't have picked up that penny from the street while it was raining? Darnit! >.<
Jokes aside, I lost mine a week before my 19th birthday. Of course, since I haven't done it with a female yet, one of my friends still says I'm a virgin because the official definition of "sexual intercourse" according to the dictionary is "the insertion of the penis into the vagina" (I've never gone farther than kissing one of my ex-girlfriends). With my fiance, though, that might change. (We're both guys, but both bi, and have talked about finding a girl to do things with~)
In short, (barring my friend's definition), I'm not a virgin by any means.
Also, threesomes are slightly overrated, but still awesome.
octobr
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ArtemisX
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Ryubikon said:
I've been in a couple threesomes. One was great, and the other was slightly less than. I would say it depends on the experience of those involved, but the first one involved a virgin, and the second involved a couple that had plenty of experience under their belts, so to speak.
I ain't knocking it. I have to keep to onesomes myself, since my fiance lives halfway around the world.Verne said:
nothing to see here
...probably not posting here too much anymore.
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The poll said:
Of course.
I have at least gone on dates now (after almost 25 years of having no luck with girls at all)... but still no kissing yet, and it's pretty unlikely that anything beyond that is going to happen anytime soon.
Especially since 99% of the girls I know at the moment are Mormons, with the whole "no sex before marriage" thing. Or they're already married or have boyfriends. Or both.
Nanabshuckle8
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Hiikaru
Run.
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Um? There's nothing about being a girl that means someone has to have sex with every friend, and nothing about being someone who's attracted to girls that says the someone has to have sex with every friend who happens to be a girl, so no, you wouldn't assume that!
(and nothing about male-bodied people says they have to have sex with every female-bodied friend or vice versa, which is more likely what you meant)
goldenquagsire
Rubber dinghy rapids, bro!
Cultural assumptions, bro. Guys with lots of female friends are often seen as players. If nothing else, it's usually a sign that you're at least capable of socialising with women without scaring them off. Perhaps Chibispore didn't explain the point brilliantly, but let's give them the benefit of the doubt!
That said, men with lots of women friends are also often stereotyped as gay, so tbh you can't infer much from it. :P