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Relationships

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So yeah this didn't belong in laughing/coughing cupboard because it's sort of both. I considered Insanity for a second to be satirical but this just seemed like the best place to put it.

Post anything relationships-wise in this thread, whether for advice or just to share your happiness or anything in between.

I'll start: So there's this really cute girl and she knows I like her and I think she likes me but idk and so anyways it sucks because it's not even that I'm afraid of rejection (although I am) or that I don't have the balls to ask her out (although I don't) or that I never have a good time to (Although this is true too.) I just don't /want/ to be in a relationship right now. I'm thirteen for crying out loud and even if I wasn't high school and parents and working for my eagle scout is hard enough and I'm not even sure what one does when one goes out or how one goes about it (big fucking nerdiness shines through) but on the other hand she'll probably go out with someone else or something because I'm so hesitant what do I do graaaah (And also that was rhetorical mostly and you probably can't answer anyways because this is mostly just a rant but feel free to try.)

Also, if I'm not able to post before school, inb4 1000th post.
 
There used to be a thread like this, I swear...
I'd want to put it in LC, personally, but this is as good a place as any (;

If I were you, I'd make my feelings known, just because the curiosity might kill you later! (As in, spending years wondering "What would have happened if I had asked that girl out...") For many people that would be worse, never knowing, than suffering through the awkwardness of the confession or even rejection.

If you don't have the time to commit to a relationship right now, you can always say that, too. Chances are you both have a busy life to come... but, well, up to you. You make a relationship sound like such hard work! (Which of course it can be, but really it's supposed to be fun and nice and worth doing and stuff)
Many high school students find enough time to work (well, homework, but part time jobs too... a friend of mine is going out with a chick studying at uni while working 3 part-time jobs) to their satisfaction while maintaining a healthy relationship, so I'm sure you could too.

As for what you do, if you're not sure why not just talk with her? Better than nothing! I mean, if you both like each other you can totally think of a good activity you guys can do together, if you're too restless for conversation. It's not like you have to take her out for dinner once a week for you two to be in a relationship, right?
Oh, and don't be afraid of being a nerd; nerds are totally hot. Honest.

As for me/my situation, uh... not today ~ hope my advice helps you though (:
 
It seems that whenever I try to drop hints and stuff, the person I like never catches on, or never says anything about it whether they like me back or not. It is annoying, and it gets me nowhere. The last guy I had a crush on, though..I just told him. It was Valentine's day (actually day before but whatever), and I know that's kinda cheesy, but it was a perfect opportunity to tell him.

So...

That's two years next month.. Yay :P
 
I used to say I'd never get a boyfriend.

...guess who has a date on Sunday. And, more importantly, a boyfriend.

Uh, he's my friend's neighbor who was invited over said friend's house for a New Years' party. He kinda liked me from day one.
 
My boyfriend is such a big doofus. Ew. Like, why am I even going out with him, seriously... >:(
 
Apparently I am just atrocious at taking hints, because apparently I am this like, big swoon or something. However, I wouldn't know, because I am apparently so terrible at taking hints!

HINT: pay close attention to whatever the person you like/ are going out with says. It could come back to bite you in the butt.
 
I honestly fail, somewhat. I'm very shy towards anyone I meet, and girls I like especially. I try to talk to people but, honestly, it doesn't work most of the time. The one time I actually did get the courage to ask simeone my age out was when there was a dance at my school. two people I wanted to go with were already going with someone else, and a third I asked said yes at first, then said that their parents said they couldn't go. and then went anyway. with someone else. I haven't had much luck, really.
 
RespectTheBlade said:
I honestly fail, somewhat. I'm very shy towards anyone I meet, and girls I like especially. I try to talk to people but, honestly, it doesn't work most of the time. The one time I actually did get the courage to ask simeone my age out was when there was a dance at my school. two people I wanted to go with were already going with someone else, and a third I asked said yes at first, then said that their parents said they couldn't go. and then went anyway. with someone else. I haven't had much luck, really.
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Same problem. D: I try to talk and all, but I'm pretty bad at it, and most anyone I like usually is in a relationship already or likes someone else. Even if they don't, I usually mess it up anyway. :/
 
Right now it's not my relationship that's giving me troubles. No, me and my girlfriend are quite happy. Noo, it's other people's reactions that are giving me troubles.
 
I have a girlfriend. We've started arguing more than I'd like lately, and we have far too many problems, but it doesn't stop me from loving her. We've been going out almost four months now. :D

Relationships are tough. T-T
 
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I'm in a silly limbo situation with a friend and I'm fairly certain he likes me back, but we're both too shy and socially incompetent to do anything about it.
Either way, I'm getting him a rose for Valentine's Day because I don't feel like raving about consumerism for once and just want to express myself. Love is screwing up all my social principles man :(

Also some of his friends seem to loathe me for whatever reason but it's okay, I hate them too. Once on a date one of his friends called and tried to get him to leave me for a bottle of vodka :v but it's okay, it's not his fault the only person who'd ever touch him is himself.
 
Been with my girlfriend for 6 and a half months now

tis the best relationship I've had so far :D
 
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